Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Pathetic



I have a profile on CollarSpace that quite specifically states who I am and what I am am looking for. 

It also states that I will delete one line messages, form letters, anything reeking of spam, do-me lists, and messages stating that relocation is possible, when the person in question would very obviously have no chance to live and work in Austria.

Yet, I am constantly inundated with those kind of messages.  It's pathetic when someone can't be bothered to read my entire profile before responding to it.  It's just sad. 

When you are seeking a dominant, read the entire profile, from beginning, to end.  Contemplate a while on whether a specific dominant and you would be a good fit, and why.  Don't send messages willy-nilly to every dominant on the site.  We don't want our time wasted, and I speak for myself, when I say I don't want to waste your time either.

If you're going to send someone a message, send one
that's well thought out, intelligent, and meaningful.  People respond better to these kind of messages.  I respond better to these kind of messages.

So take a time to reflect on your needs before wasting both of our time.

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