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I am in the very early stages of speaking with three submissives.  Two are in Vienna, and one is in Denmark. 

Normally I would not be interested in someone who is more than three hours drive from me, but the Dane has really captured my interest, as he's really intelligent, has strong, educated opinions on what's wrong with the world, and he's kind.  Of course, it doesn't hurt that he's very easy on the eyes.

One of the submissives from Vienna is a newbie, and the other doesn't have a lot of experience.  Usually I prefer a sub that has a lot of experience, but I'm giving these two the benefit of the doubt.  It would be different, and maybe fun to train a sub from the ground floor up.  We'll see.

I am going to have a drink with one of the men in Vienna this weekend.  If we connect on a human level, perhaps we'll meet again, and see where things go.

I'm not going to move very quickly on any of these subs.  It is of the utmost importance to get to know these men on a human level, before jumping into anything D/s or FLR related.  So, I'm going to take my time, and see what direction the wind blows.

Pathetic

I have a profile on CollarSpace that quite specifically states who I am and what I am am looking for. 

It also states that I will delete one line messages, form letters, anything reeking of spam, do-me lists, and messages stating that relocation is possible, when the person in question would very obviously have no chance to live and work in Austria.

Yet, I am constantly inundated with those kind of messages.  It's pathetic when someone can't be bothered to read my entire profile before responding to it.  It's just sad. 

When you are seeking a dominant, read the entire profile, from beginning, to end.  Contemplate a while on whether a specific dominant and you would be a good fit, and why.  Don't send messages willy-nilly to every dominant on the site.  We don't want our time wasted, and I speak for myself, when I say I don't want to waste your time either.

If you're going to send someone a message, send one
that's well thought out, intelligent, and meaningful.  People respond better to these kind of messages.  I respond better to these kind of messages.

So take a time to reflect on your needs before wasting both of our time.